SIGNS THAT YOUR PARTNER MAY BE CHEATING
Your partner sets up
a new e-mail account and doesn't tell you about it.
He leaves the house in the morning smelling
like one type of soap and returns in the evening smelling
like a different soap or cologne.
She joins the gym and begins a rigorous workout
program.
She buys a cell phone and doesn't let you know.
He sets up a separate cell phone account that is
billed to his office.
He carries condoms, and you are on the pill.
Begins to delete all incoming phone calls from the
caller ID.
Deletes all incoming e-mails when they used to
accumulate.
He becomes "accusatory," asking if you are being
true to him, usually out of guilt.
Raises hypothetical questions such as, "Do you think
it's possible to love more than
one person at a time?"
He buys himself new underwear. She buys a sexier
type of underwear.
She stops wearing her wedding ring.
Has a sudden desire to be helpful with the
laundry.
Has unexplained scratches or bruises on his or her
neck or back.
Suddenly wants to try new love techniques.
He/she fairly suddenly stops having sex with
you.
He/she suddenly wants more sex, more often.
Supposedly works a lot of overtime, but it never
shows up on the pay stub.
Picks fights in order to stomp out of the house.
You find out by accident he or she took vacation day
or personal time off from work - but supposedly worked on those
days.
Shows a sudden interest in a different type of
music.
Spouse's coworkers are uncomfortable in your
presence.
Has a sudden preoccupation with his or her
appearance.
Spends an excessive amount of time on the computer,
especially after you have gone to bed.
Your spouse is away from home, either nights or on
trips, more than previously.
The amount of money being deposited into your
checking account drops off.
You find items of intimate apparel or other small
gift-type items that you did not give your spouse.
Your spouse seems less comfortable around you and is
"touchy" and easily moved to anger.
You get calls where the caller hangs up when he or she
hears your voice.
He/she loses attention in the activities in the home.
Your intuition (gut feeling) tells you that
something is not right.
He/she has a definite change in attitude towards
everyone in the home.
She uses a low voice or whisper on the phone or
hangs up quickly.
She has a "glow" about her. This is a big one.
Atypical erratic behavior.
He sneaks out of the house.
She sleeps with her purse by the bed
